D'oh! You see, I have this problem with names. Usually I just remember the first letter (if I'm lucky). And then there are certain names I'll always confuse forever. Nigel/Niles is one of them D:. Like that butler in The Nanny. What's this name? It's one of the two but for the love of God, I have no idea! *g*

Well, the thing with people refusing to talk about their personal life is that in many cases it just sets off even more speculation and people just assume by default that he or she's got something to hide. It's kinda annoying, yeah.

Either way, this was the true gentleman style to do it. No need to go on Oprah and tell the world. Just slip in a factual little comment like that and let the rest of the world come to terms with it. He rocks.